There’s no denying during Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson’s lesbian relationship which one acted as the “man.” Not hating or criticizing, just saying. That said, it comes as little surprise (to us at least) that Samantha is being accused of abusing the troubled Lohan during their volatile time as a couple.

Rumors are swirling on the Internets that Ronson beat and choked the alleged actress, but the former pair said it’s not so, and presented a united front.

At least to dispel the myth … and threaten lawsuits.

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One of the two faux-lesbians actually looks hot here!

“This is become a bit much,” Lindsey Tweeted. “Samantha R never raised a hand to me. I never said she did. Enough is Enough. Focus on important world issues.”

That’s right, because the Jesus Christ poser cares so much about world issues and not clubbing, partying and enjoying the perks of fame every night. Anyway.

Samantha retweeted that and sent her ex a nice response.

“Thank you for clearing that up. The high road was giving me a nose bleed!,” Samantha wrote to her former b!tch … as well as to the entire Twitter universe.

“To ANYONE who perpetuates this rumour accusing me of being violently abusive after both I and @lindsaylohan have denied it: I WILL take legal action.”

Nice to see them fighting others, and not each other, for once.

Lindsay Lohan wants a change of address.

No, really, she’s moving. Apparently her current house being broken into twice and constantly surrounded by paparazzi lessened the appeal a bit.

At the same time, Samantha Ronson happens to be moving, sick of constant celebrity gossip photographer presence outside her L.A. residence.

Could they be moving to a new place together?

Not likely. But they both are after more privacy and security. Lohan has movers coming today to transport all her stuff from her rented Hollywood Hills home to a more secure high-rise, which she planned even before her recent burglary.

Early on August 23, Lindsay Lohan came home to find a door off its hinges and a safe ripped out of the wall. The police are still trying to identify three suspects who were caught on tape by surveillance cameras ransacking the property.

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Both halves of this troubled, quasi-lesbian couple are seeking new pads.

“I’m sorry i haven’t been on in a bit,” she Twittered on Wednesday. “My life has been kind of in shambles considering my house was broken into. i feel violated.”

She’s been violated quite a lot in recent years.

As for Samantha Ronson, she hasn’t been robbed, but having to face a bunch of flashbulbs whenever she walks outside hasn’t been particularly fun for her.

So she’s moving out of her rented Hollywood Hills abode, which currently has a “for lease” sign hanging out front, and is headed for … an L.A. high-rise!